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Are you mind-blind?
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Are you mind-blind?

I am working with really brave men. Men who have endured the most emotionally excruciating episodes of their lives. Many have been brought to their knees by an unrelenting Fate who stands with her sharpened heel on their windpipe long after they have surrendered. These men, covered in sorrow and exhaustion, crawl onto the couch […]

How we spend our days, is how we spend our lives.

How we spend our days, is how we spend our lives.

I’m appalled by the amount of burnout that’s coming into my office on a daily basis. Many corporate veterans stumble into therapy, harrowed, hollowed out from their daily grind. Often they have created a lifestyle that keeps them painfully tethered to a rigid schedule, to flawed systems that bribe them with bonuses and shiny toys […]

Reflections…
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Reflections…

So much going on in my head. Souls bringing me nuggets which I cannot but marvel at. A moveable feast. The following is a thin, ragged cross-section of today’s thoughts… Does regret have a purpose? Or is it just an excuse not to get involved in the present? Could fantasy be therapeutic? For example, would […]

Is the ‘Midlife Crisis’ just an excuse?

Is the ‘Midlife Crisis’ just an excuse?

Is the midlife crisis just an excuse? By Emma Jacobs Elizabeth has had enough of life as a City lawyer. Now, in her mid-thirties, she has decided to change careers. “Life is short,” she says, wincing at the cliché. As the first person in her family to make it to university, Elizabeth – who does […]

The way of f**k it
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The way of f**k it

The idea of saying F**k it comes from a radical realisation. That we are all one and therefore do not exist as individuals That the world as we know it, reality as we perceive it, is just an illusion And that everything in this illusion is simply arising of oneness- all therefore divine. All beautiful, […]

Orgasm therapy
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Orgasm therapy

Today’s selection — from The Birth of the Pill by Jonathan Eig. In the 1800s, in much of the United States and in other countries, birth control and abortion were banned to discourage promiscuity. Attitudes began to change in 1909 after a lecture in America by Sigmund Freud. By 1923, [Wilhelm] Reich had announced that […]

Just hold on…

Just hold on…

October and people are soul-weary. They come in, clutching the fragmented parts of their lives to their chests  like children with arms that are too small for their big lives.  I am often struck with awe by the sheer determination some  people show in getting through each day. So many struggle for so long, alone, […]

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Are you mind-blind?
,
Are you mind-blind?

I am working with really brave men. Men who have endured the most emotionally excruciating episodes of their lives. Many have been brought to their knees by an unrelenting Fate who stands with her sharpened heel on their windpipe long after they have surrendered. These men, covered in sorrow and exhaustion, crawl onto the couch […]

How we spend our days, is how we spend our lives.
How we spend our days, is how we spend our lives.

I’m appalled by the amount of burnout that’s coming into my office on a daily basis. Many corporate veterans stumble into therapy, harrowed, hollowed out from their daily grind. Often they have created a lifestyle that keeps them painfully tethered to a rigid schedule, to flawed systems that bribe them with bonuses and shiny toys […]

Is the ‘Midlife Crisis’ just an excuse?
Is the ‘Midlife Crisis’ just an excuse?

Is the midlife crisis just an excuse? By Emma Jacobs Elizabeth has had enough of life as a City lawyer. Now, in her mid-thirties, she has decided to change careers. “Life is short,” she says, wincing at the cliché. As the first person in her family to make it to university, Elizabeth – who does […]

The way of f**k it
,
The way of f**k it

The idea of saying F**k it comes from a radical realisation. That we are all one and therefore do not exist as individuals That the world as we know it, reality as we perceive it, is just an illusion And that everything in this illusion is simply arising of oneness- all therefore divine. All beautiful, […]

Just hold on…

Just hold on…

October and people are soul-weary. They come in, clutching the fragmented parts of their lives to their chests  like children with arms that are too small for their big lives.  I am often struck with awe by the sheer determination some  people show in getting through each day. So many struggle for so long, alone, […]

Reflections…
,

Reflections…

So much going on in my head. Souls bringing me nuggets which I cannot but marvel at. A moveable feast. The following is a thin, ragged cross-section of today’s thoughts… Does regret have a purpose? Or is it just an excuse not to get involved in the present? Could fantasy be therapeutic? For example, would […]

Orgasm therapy
,

Orgasm therapy

Today’s selection — from The Birth of the Pill by Jonathan Eig. In the 1800s, in much of the United States and in other countries, birth control and abortion were banned to discourage promiscuity. Attitudes began to change in 1909 after a lecture in America by Sigmund Freud. By 1923, [Wilhelm] Reich had announced that […]